People often times judge a book by it’s cover. But why? Is it because you find that person pleasing, attractive, sure that’s what can capture any person, but who’s to say it’s the right way judge something. I’m no better, I often times find myself attractive to the pretty boys. I mean they’re hot so why wouldn’t I be. But then I get to know them and they suddenly aren’t as attractive as they were before.
I don’t know if I’m in love right now. Who can say what love really is, what’s it’s suppose to feel like and be like. Sure my relationship has it’s ups and downs but I love it anyway. But am I in love or in love with the idea of being in love?
No one can really know can they. I mean I over think a lot of things like Leonard from Big Bang Theory. It’s flaw of my brain I will admit, but what is love?
I try to look between the page of a person, find out who they really are. There is so much more than what’s on the outside of a person. You can be the prettiest girl or the hottest guy and be absolutely ugly. Inner beauty, and forgive me if I’m being cheesy, often reflects outward. So does ones ugly inner being. If you are a horrible person, you won’t be person, if you are selfish self-centered person with great looks, but you’ll never find true love because you cant hide who you really are.
I guess, I’m just ranting, but looking between the pages is a better way of finding out who someone really is.
I mean all those reality tv shows about finding love are crap. They aren’t really getting to know a person, they are simply trying to portray this ideal world where you can live in a fairy tale. Life is not like that, love is not like that. Everything has it’s ups and downs and no, there is no fairy tale happy ending. The happy ending is what you make it. It can be fighting zombies in a war zone for heavens sake (yes I went with that image) but what makes it a happy ending is you’re with the one you love.
Love is found between the pages of two people. You can fill in the missing pages, capture one another and in the end it doesn’t matter how many downs you have as long as you’re truly, truly, happy and love the one you’re with.
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